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Relationships and Love in Buddhism
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Relationships and Love in Buddhism
Chapter 2 Relationships and Love People spend a fortune on research, books and other sources of information trying to discover the 'secret' to a successful and lasting marriage. Yet, every year statis
In this chapter, we delve into the challenges of modern marriages and the rising divorce rates that impact society. Despite numerous resources available, the quest for a lasting marriage often leads t
Delicate Love and Buddhist Values in Relationships
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Delicate Love and Buddhist Values in Relationships
Delicate Love Buddhist traditions serve as wonderful guidelines for a couple's married life. If we are to study Buddhist traditions, we will learn to distinguish which actions are appropriate and inap
Delicate Love discusses the guidance provided by Buddhist traditions for couples in their married life, emphasizing ethical actions and the importance of The Five Precepts. It contrasts modern views o
The Responsibilities of Parents and Children
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The Responsibilities of Parents and Children
their spiritual values. We need to educate them on the pros and cons as well as the benefits and dangers related to this subject, even if they call us old-fashioned and boring. We have to explain that
This text emphasizes the responsibilities of parents in guiding their children towards love, morality, and success. Parents must model virtuous behavior, educate, and provide emotional support while t
Luang Phaw's Teachings: A Journey of Inner Love and Compassion
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Luang Phaw's Teachings: A Journey of Inner Love and Compassion
ERVICE Luang Phaw's benign compassion for people, reflected in his pioneering deployment of several intuitive techniques in Dhamma education on the satellite program, permeates into hearts all over th
Luang Phaw's benevolent compassion resonates globally, guiding individuals towards inner love and spiritual perfection. His teachings have profoundly influenced people, including the author's sons, in
Jealousy and Marital Struggles
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Jealousy and Marital Struggles
ERVICE good reasons. My rules were simple, they were: (1) I was always right, and (2) If you didn't understand, check out rule number one. Sometimes, I would become mad and throw things around, but my
This text delves into the author's personal struggles with jealousy and possessiveness within her marriage. The author describes rules she enacted, her husband's reactions, and the tensions that arose
The Transformative Power of Meditation
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The Transformative Power of Meditation
ERVICE I couldn't help thinking a lot, sometimes I kept thinking until midnight. One sleepless night, I decided to try meditating. I just sat and let time go by, waiting for myself to feel sleepy. I d
The narrative illustrates a woman's journey through meditation, revealing how it leads her to inner peace, emotional stability, and a better understanding of herself. Initially sleepless and contempla
Death & Afterlife in Buddhism
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Death & Afterlife in Buddhism
Death & Afterlife Monica accumulate merits. Also, one should acknowledge the purpose of being born a human so as to cease birth and find the celestial realm as a halfway before reaching the goal of ni
In Buddhism, the purpose of human life is to accumulate merits and strive for higher levels of meditation to achieve peace of mind, free from the fear of death. Buddhists seek to avoid reincarnation,
The Impact of Meditation on Daily Life
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The Impact of Meditation on Daily Life
Daily Life of Buddhists Meditation Monica : Yes ok. How does this meditating affect the rest of your day? Luang Phaw: The benefits of twenty-four hour meditation are that it makes me happy and joyful.
Meditation provides significant benefits by fostering happiness and awareness, which helps in alleviating personal sufferings. Practitioners use insights gained from meditation to assist others and sp
Understanding Marital Conflicts and Endurance
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Understanding Marital Conflicts and Endurance
there is something that still displeases us. When we are displeased with ourselves, they are considered weaknesses that have turned into bad habits. And we will notice that we have overlooked so many
This text discusses the inherent weaknesses in marital relationships, highlighting that all couples face conflicts regardless of how well they get along. It emphasizes the importance of endurance, not
The Importance of Sacrifice in Family Life
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The Importance of Sacrifice in Family Life
4) Sacrifice or caga is the means to correct the problem of selfishness. Charity means sacrifice. There are 3 types: 1) Sacrifice of material objects 2) Sacrifice of comfort 3) Sacrifice of negative e
This text discusses the significance of sacrifice within family structures, emphasizing that true charity involves giving up material comforts and negative emotions for the greater good of the family.
The Foundation of Marriage: Sacrifice and Care
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The Foundation of Marriage: Sacrifice and Care
After one gets married, the foundation of one's life lies in sacrifice for each other. If ever we become selfish towards each other, it will be followed by divorce or murder. Sacrifice in marriage is
This text discusses the fundamental aspects of marriage, emphasizing that the foundation of a successful relationship lies in sacrifice for one another. It highlights how caring for each other, both p
Building a Strong Marriage: Essential Factors for Success
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Building a Strong Marriage: Essential Factors for Success
clash with each other, or for them not to clash with their in- laws. No matter what, there is always a chance that this can happen. The major concern is that, if the couple didn't learn how to regulat
This text discusses the importance of emotional regulation in marriage and the need for couples to prepare before their union. It outlines four essential factors for a successful marriage, including s
Understanding the Eight Worldly Conditions
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Understanding the Eight Worldly Conditions
Our grandparents advised that, for the mind to be as stable and solid as the earth, we must first realize that, in this world, we are subject to both gratification and disappointment; it is a matter o
This text delves into the wisdom imparted by grandparents and the Buddha regarding the Eight Worldly Conditions, which influence human emotions of gratification and disappointment. These conditions ca
Five Responsibilities of a Husband and Wife in Marriage
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Five Responsibilities of a Husband and Wife in Marriage
1. Five Responsibilities of a Husband to His Wife 1.1 Appreciation. The husband should openly respect her as his lawful wedded wife, not furtively keeping her like a mistress. If his wife does somethi
เนื้อหานี้แสดงถึงความรับผิดชอบของสามีต่อภรรยา ได้แก่ การให้ความเคารพ, การไม่ดูถูก, ความซื่อสัตย์, การให้สิทธิในการตัดสินใจและการดูแลเรื่องเสริมสวย ขณะเดียวกันก็ระบุความรับผิดชอบของภรรยาต่อสามี เช่น กา
The Importance of Family Dinners
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The Importance of Family Dinners
In a large family, members who do not eat dinner together have even more disagreements. Take for an example, if one day a mother cooks a very delicious meal that everyone enjoys, everyone will eat mor
In a large family, not eating dinner together leads to disagreements and emotional issues. Children who eat late may feel neglected, while those who help out end up with leftovers. This breeds jealous
What Should Parents Do When Their Children Do Not Get Along?
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What Should Parents Do When Their Children Do Not Get Along?
Chapter 16 What Should Parents Do When Their Children Do Not Get Along? Here is a true story for parents who have not yet begun creating harmony in their families. There was once a family with three d
This chapter discusses the challenges faced by families when siblings do not get along. The story of three daughters highlights the emotional pain experienced by the oldest sibling as her sisters rema
The Unconditional Love of Parents and the Reality of Orphaned Children
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The Unconditional Love of Parents and the Reality of Orphaned Children
Luang Phaw wanted their son to witness what difficulties face children who do not have parents. With his eyes now open, he may change and love and value his parents more from seeing these unfortunate
Text describes an emotional experience at an orphanage, highlighting the struggles of children without parents. The author recalls witnessing the desperate need for love and attention among more than
Children and the Dangers of Apāyamukha
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Children and the Dangers of Apāyamukha
Chapter 20 Children Who Are Addicted to Apāyamukha (the Roads to Ruin) Their love for their children makes parents work hard to earn money, so that they can provide comforts like an education, toys, a
บทที่ 20 กล่าวถึงความรักของพ่อแม่ที่มีต่อบุตรหลานทำให้พวกเขาทำงานหนักเพื่อให้ความสะดวกสบายแก่ลูกๆ ซึ่งหลายครั้งทำให้พวกเขาละเลยการเติบโตทางอารมณ์และจิตวิญญาณของลูก ทำให้เด็กๆ ตกอยู่ในอันตรายจากการใช้ส
Advice on Helping a Father Overcome Alcoholism
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Advice on Helping a Father Overcome Alcoholism
There was a student who approached Luang Phaw, seeking advice in helping his father to quit drinking, because every time his father was drunk he became violent and would yell at the neighbors. This ma
A student seeks counsel from Luang Phaw to help his father quit drinking, as his father's violent behavior affects their family and reputation. Luang Phaw shares his experience with addiction in famil
Helping a Parent Overcome Alcoholism
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Helping a Parent Overcome Alcoholism
At that time, my father was seventy years old. I wanted him to chant, meditate and purify his mind, and I hoped that he would accrue as many merits as he could during the latter part of his life, so t
This narrative explores the challenges faced by a child trying to persuade their elderly father to quit drinking. Through clever methods and family collaboration, the child works to help their father